the_conqueror
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@DeSmOnD dAvId , I am also suffering from same kinda' problem. I become friends easily with people who are of my kind or who love the tech stuff, but making friends with girls seems quite a daunting task.
Acceptance is the keyword. At any time, any phase if you can accept yourself, love yourself for the way you are...problem solved.
You would be happy.
Problem arises when we start to think we are not normal, we crave to be common, a part of mass. Actually being in the mass at times gives you the illusion of happiness. But, at the end of the day, you realize you were involved into something which you did not enjoy, did not like too.
If you want to be happy. Accept yourself.
If you just want to mingle with people, FAKE. Everyone does it.
@desmond u can test it urselfs,just be honest with yourself while answering;D Liebowitz Social Anxiety Scale Test - SAS
im just guessing,maybe you dont have any problem at all.
That's easier said than done. I find it hard in that matter to put up with small talk, though I try my best. I wonder how people are so eloquent about stuff while I fumble with words when I want to express myself. When I am hardly done talking, people will stop listening and carry on talking among themselves, making me feel like a jackass. This fills me with anger and frustration.
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Acceptance is the keyword. At any time, any phase if you can accept yourself, love yourself for the way you are...problem solved.
You would be happy.
Problem arises when we start to think we are not normal, we crave to be common, a part of mass. Actually being in the mass at times gives you the illusion of happiness. But, at the end of the day, you realize you were involved into something which you did not enjoy, did not like too.
If you want to be happy. Accept yourself.
If you just want to mingle with people, FAKE. Everyone does it.
@DeSmOnD Stop hanging out with those who don't like to indulge you in or ignore you.
If you're a girl, your social life on Twitter/Facebook is set.
Then that would become almost everybody.
I suggest you to try out Omegle. You'll make many friends over there and love to talk with them!wut?
I ain't no girl. Besides, I hardly hang out on FB/Twitter. These are more like a glorified news aggregators for me, where I go, read stuff, then log out. That's it.
I do game a lot though.
I suggest you to try out Omegle. You'll make many friends over there and love to talk with them!
Trust me.
I can't talk to friends who don't talk about Computers etc.Except a few(maybe 4-5) friends whom i dont talk about computers.
The main problem is people who i hardly talk to god knows what to say to them
^Maybe.But they hate geeks .
I cant understand what to do soo many boys talk with them
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