^I know what the problem is, and frankly, I share some of the same problems as well. I guess you are not understanding what I am saying. I can't just go and say "look these are the problems with the forum, fix them." I can't even go and tell tehm "look these are the problems people are facing in the forum, fix them." What I can do, is say, there are a bunch of problems in the forum, the specific issues are <issue in your words> posted by <username>, and there are so many people facing the same problem and voicing their opinions. Now instead of one person's word, they have one person pointing out the problem, and supporting it with the words of so many others. That is a somewhat better approach I guess.
However, I can understand giving up on something that does not get fixed after a long time.