Party animals strip girl in public

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mehulved

18 Till I Die............
The whole root of the problem is the change we are undergoing.
In our whole childhood we have been taught that SEX is a dirty, filthy word and it should be abstained. Now with opening up of the entertainment channels to the global media all of a sudden we are exposed to the reality that 'we all need sex', it's an essential part of our life. We need it. But, we have always been supressed by our families and society.
If someone even mentions such a word or discusses it, they are scoffed at.
A nice example is 'When Digit published the word sex on their front page, there was a huge noise about people opposing it', it wasn't that they just wrote it to attract attention, but it was the part of an article. But, we were so overwhelmed and embarassed by that one word that we created a huge fuss out of it.
Now couple it with the high level of stress that people go through everyday and the fact that they were drunk. I have heard that drink can increase your sexual desire. No wonder what happened.
We need to remedy this situation rather than pitying it. Work on stress management. Don't wince or laugh when someone says "SEX.....".
Otherwise we will see such incidents reach an magnamious proportion. This things have now become a staple diet of newspapers - rapes, eve-teasing, unconsentious sex.
 

Arsenal_Gunners

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it is not about just this case but any damn case you can think of from theft to murder and to terrorism all are caused because of public's irresponsible attitude.
man most of us dispose our garbage on the middle of the roads leave alone stopping a crime.
 

Kiran.dks

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tech_your_future said:
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Now couple it with the high level of stress that people go through everyday and the fact that they were drunk. I have heard that drink can increase your sexual desire. No wonder what happened.
We need to remedy this situation rather than pitying it. Work on stress management. Don't wince or laugh when someone says "SEX.....".
Otherwise we will see such incidents reach an magnamious proportion. This things have now become a staple diet of newspapers - rapes, eve-teasing, unconsentious sex.


I agree that being drunk can increase sexual desire. But it also demands a corresponding good environment to do sex. With such a crowd gathering at Gateway of India, his obsession for sex can't be explained there. In this case it is not sex that drived the idiot so crazy. It is his attitude, his disrespect towards women.
 

mehulved

18 Till I Die............
I am not defending them in anyway. Just trying to explain the reasons why this is happening. We need to dig deeper into the reasons cause such crimes are rising day by day. And so many of them are done by policemen.
How can those couple trust the police and complain to them. Our police force has become a big joke now. Totally untrustworthy.
 

Choto Cheeta

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sad part is they are going away with this act... Couple realy should come forward and Identify those Animals... Shame... :(
 
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gxsaurav

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my take : legalize porn in india, atleast to some extent.Trust me it can be a very good sex education method too

If they know about it, it won't be a taboo topic anymore. I discuss it among my friends like usual talk, even gals cos they are cool with it, everyone wants to talk about it, know about it , do it....it's just that they do not get proper enviroment to talk about it
 

mehulved

18 Till I Die............
saurav_cheeta said:
sad part is they are going away with this act... Couple realy should come forward and Identify those Animals... Shame... :(
Then what? Nothing will be done. Those cheapsters will be roaming freely and get some sound bytes and footage on TV/Radio. Finish go home and boast. Too difficult to find honest people in our police department. I guess that's the reason why the couple hasn't lodged a complaint. Another reason is the way our society will look at the girl as if she was something bad.
 

nix

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first of all, the girl and her friend should not have gone there itself. its better to stay at home on new years than go to such places where cheapsters roam the roads. MG road in bangalore at new years is dangerous too...many times in the past, the police have resorted to lathi-charges.
 

mehulved

18 Till I Die............
nix said:
first of all, the girl and her friend should not have gone there itself. its better to stay at home on new years than go to such places where cheapsters roam the roads. MG road in bangalore at new years is dangerous too...many times in the past, the police have resorted to lathi-charges.
Our country is supposed to have freedom of movement. And Gateway of India is no petty place, it's a famous place and a heritage site. Why this discrepancy? Why shouldn't those people go whereever they like.
Two girls were attacked by a psychopath - Uzer Patel at The Gateway of India. So, you will say that girls should stop going to Gateway of India? That's not the way.
As in cricket, you don't win by ducking the bouncers but by fending them off. We need to remove the problem from it's root.
 

Kiran.dks

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nix said:
first of all, the girl and her friend should not have gone there itself. its better to stay at home on new years than go to such places where cheapsters roam the roads. MG road in bangalore at new years is dangerous too...many times in the past, the police have resorted to lathi-charges.

Wht? Hey! One can't sit in home afraid of such animals. If that is the case, no girl should come out of home. Becoz that kind of animals do exist everywhere. The best way is to teach a good lesson to such incidents. Atleast then they will think twice before doing such acts.
 
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Arsenal_Gunners

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gxsaurav said:
my take : legalize porn in india, atleast to some extent.Trust me it can be a very good sex education method too
yeah younger generation growing up watching porn.'Beta go and open xyz.com
to answer all your queries.'
no this is defiantly not the way to go about it.The whole society have to be more mature about sex education.it should be taught in classrooms,not
as biology but as SEX EDUCATION,it should be discussed at homes.
legalizing porn is sure a good one;-).I will recommend it to NCERT :D.
 
whose fault in the end ? :evil:


In past,present and future ,on earth

three types ppl always there,

Good,Bad, & Ugly :cry:

literate and educated ppl needed in my country (from family to politics) !!!!!
:p
 

mediator

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The organs of those rowdy elements shud be taken out and put to some good use!!......I feel sad after reading this!
 

nix

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tech_your_future said:
Our country is supposed to have freedom of movement. And Gateway of India is no petty place, it's a famous place and a heritage site. Why this discrepancy? Why shouldn't those people go whereever they like.
Two girls were attacked by a psychopath - Uzer Patel at The Gateway of India. So, you will say that girls should stop going to Gateway of India? That's not the way.
As in cricket, you don't win by ducking the bouncers but by fending them off. We need to remove the problem from it's root.

Its not about freedom of movement. its about being at the wrong place at the wrong time. thats the problem. if cheapsters crowded that particular area this time at new years, then it probably happens every year. ppl who stay in that city must be knowing about the kind of ppl who gather there during new years and shouldnt go there.
and about removing the problem from its root, forget about it. its not going to happen. rowdys are only increasing day by day, and people's attitude wont change.
 

mehulved

18 Till I Die............
It's not attitude it's the mindset and it can be changed just by talking more freely about sex. That's the problem. We see, hear, feel sex everywhere around us but we are bound by the society to supress it. This is the outcome of it.
If we can speak about it freely we won't get so desperate about it.
@nix
And did those two girls know that Uzer Patel's gonna attack them. Did that girl who got raped by constable Sunil More inside a Police Chowky at Marine Drive know that she will be raped? So, should all the girls go in hiding? Man these places we are talking about are posh places in Mumbai not red light area or some small shady place, not even some suburbs of Mumbai.
I'd say it's definitely not the fault of the girl.
 

mediator

Technomancer
^^I disagree!

People talk more freely and openly about sex in US, but still the crime rate is high. It was stated in some newspaper and a documentary film ("The Accused" I guess starring Jodie foster) that every 4 minutes or 4 seconds (I forgot) that a girl is raped in US.

So, talking freely and openly about it IMHO can only help reduce population to some extent, but it cannot stop these rape cases! It may marginally.

Just think for urself and try to visualise the situation that u r drunk. Will u remember at that time what has been imparted to u the whole life?? If someone hits u, will u try to restrain urself and try to control ur mind?? Alcohol is known to destroy the mind. There r many cases that people got drunk and lost their mind, latest one being case of Manu sharma n Jessica lal!

I don't say its the fault of the girl, coz Mumbai is known for the safety of girls. She must have been shocked that how such a thing can happen in Mumbai. I have heard that girls can walk alone at night in minis in Mumbai without any fear of such attacks. So yea, it must have been a really big shock for all Mumbaikars. The guilty shud be shown no mercy!!

If it wud have been in Delhi here, then I wud have said that it was also the fault of the girl. People throng here from all parts of India (rural ones too) and get attracted to the city lust easily and thereby ruining themselves and their minds. So its no wonder Indian capital is also called the rape capital. Though, the security has been tightened now and such cases reduced drastically.

As for girl raped by Constable, thats again a part of lust/alcoholism.........There have been cases of Daughter raped by her own father!!

We shud talk more about ethics if we wanna reduce all this. A person from well to do family with ethical values who has been brought up under proper guidance and told to stay away from alcohol and drugs, and slapped or scolded by his parents for even tasting "Pan Parag/Masala" will obviously think of his family repute before doing any action in his life.
A person brought up under violent conditions and improper guidance, who has seen slaughtering of goats since childhood.....what do u expect from him??

So the only way I can think to stop all this is to impart ethical values to everybody, talk sensibly and openly (even if everyone laughs from behind...let them) and by banning alcohol which is the root cause of almost all the problems in the society!!
 
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nish_higher

Wise Old Owl
Legalising porn alone won't do anything.Its practically already legal.And if this incident had been caught by some1 in phone and uploaded then many of us would have downloaded it like most of us do with other clips.
 
I don't say its the fault of the girl, coz Mumbai is known for the safety of girls.

just see rape cases record in mumbai !!!! most of illegal activities happens in metro cities...
so most imp. reason is alcohol... which must be banned at public place in india atleast...

we never know india....
 

mediator

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24online said:
just see rape cases record in mumbai !!!! most of illegal activities happens in metro cities...
Didn't know that, All I have heard is Mumbai/Pune is safe for girls!
 
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