I'll tell you what Sujoy. A no is often not a NO when it comes to girls. Not even a direct NO is a NO
I know that from personal experience. Patience. More patience, and then some more.
I haven't got the time to read out the whole thread, but from the little I read I dint find anything where the girl said yes... And this is all happening FAR TOO FAST if you ask me. A lady has to be given more time. Much more time than a couple of months. One shouldn't even be thing of going for the YES or NO question atleast until say you are good friends for something like half a year or so. And marriage is even further from that, say like atleast 6 more months after a yes. You need to know the person better. Infatuation might die out but you need to know if you are willing to spend the rest of your life with this person. Its not a simple matter of 'liking'
Unfriending from FB is no big deal. If the girl sits right next to you like you said, whats this FB anyways?
It seems to me that your 'enquiries' didnt do much good. If you ask me that was a bad idea right from the start. If there is one rule in things like these, its to talk for yourself. Never, NEVER ever let anyone else do the talking for you. Thats what happened here. Even if you are going to stand infront of her and just grin like a mad dog, do ti yourself.
You know what, if you are done then I wish you the best in life. Plenty of fish in the ocean. Of all types and shapes and colors
I am much younger than you, but if anything I am proud that you always had your parents in sight. It was heartwarming to see that you never lost sight of them. They are lucky to have a son like you and you're already a better person than a lot of us. You'll be alright.
If you haven't really gotten over her, just putting up a show - you know , being a man and stuff like that, then walk upto her cube and call out her by name and tell her "I am sorry. I know why you unfriended me on FB. I wish to apologise... I dont know what has been told about me, but I am sorry anyways. I wish I could have talked to you myself, rather than somebody else warning you about me. I am sorry" Then stammer for a moment or two and say "I just liked you..." all while looking her in the eye. Then walk off back to your cube. Thats the best you can do, if you haven't already.
No, thats not your number, thats you praying that she forgives you. And DONT do that in the office when everybody else is around. She must have an atmosphere that'd let her shout at you if she so wishes. And I'll tell you this, if she shouts at you, you're doing well.
In addition to all of that, I endorse ajayritik, Faun and Klaw's comments from the first page for anyone else in this rather sticky situation.
But then again I shouldnt dig this matter up if its dead. Just hoping this might be of some use to some poor soul lost in the mysterious ways of love
Edit: Extremegamer, Klaw and Faun should be given awards
Especially post 36. Couldnt have put it better myself.
Come to think of it the solitude is no less better than that.
