Re: Guys Beware!!!
I think u dont have any sis i.e u r using such derogatory
remarks for girls
If this is ur thinking then whats the diference between u nd Fuking rapers
I dont have any thing personal against u but u shud respect Women
If u can flirt with girls why cant they ??
well atleast they should make it clear that its only flirting and nothing serious, and not
put on an act of being serious..... then we can call it fair.
COMING TO Failed Love Story part.....
Well, we were a part of a lab group of 6. 4 guys and 2 girls. Of these, 2 guys were wise,
and kept their interaction with the girls to a minimum. The remaining two of us (myself and
a friend(X)) werent so lucky... just when i was getting to know her, we had a fight one day.
and stopped talking for a week or so. After that, i thought things would return to normal
again, but was shocked to find her flirting with another guy (Y) ..... that was the day, of
my heartbreak.
i started avoiding her, but still i kept getting calls: "i am at the
canteen/cafeteria/lecture hall", i was angry with her, and would almost always avoid going
to the places she called me to. this continued for a couple of weeks, during which she
showed as if she cared and also flirted a lot(i also found that Y was with her most of the
time, during this time). Also in this period, i could clearly see the kind of person she
was.
Also by this time i realized that, the other girl was messing around with other guys,
and understood the poor plight of my friend X.
finally, one day in a party, over a game of truth or dare, when asked which guy she liked
most, she took my name (Y was also present). I like a total fool believed her and thought,
oh, "the only reason she was spending time with Y, was because of the fight we had, and we
could still betogether". After this, i was asked about potential competition to her, in the
form of ex-GFs, to which i replied, i didnt have any.
But i guess, the way i said it, it indicated, i wasnt into girls (i realized it very much
later, i mean which guy wouldnt want a GF???). This remark of mine had a very big effect:
A]she was obviously embarrassed, because she assumed, that was the reason i wasnt
responding to all her flirting.
B]my worth in her eyes, decreased to some extent.
After that, i tried to make amends and tried to be with her more often, and call her more
often and get to know her better. While she stopped calling, and would act as if she was
embarrased being around me. But at the same time showed that she was done with Y, once and
for all.
So much for my poor communication skills!!!
Right after that, there was a 2 week examination period, followed by a 4 week vacation. When
college resumed, i realized i was a 5-point-no-one!!! Also she hadnt responded to any of my
messages, and i realized something fishy was going on.... So i decided to get a final
outcome.... atleast i wouldnt have to keep wondering, whats going on??? Will she say yes or
will she say no???
When we met again, we had a long chat, and she said she was feeling quite good after talking
to me. Overall, she gave me a indication of still being interested in me.
So after a week or so, i asked her out on a proper date (i thought i would propose then,
even bought red roses, for the first time in my life!): her response was: "jayenge na". on
being asked when, she said sometime in the future, reason: she had fared poorly in her
exams. and i believed her. but in reality she was simply stalling (she wasnt the studious
kind anyway)....
but after a couple of days couldnt control myself.... i wanted a answer, by now she was
totally avoiding me, and acting disinterested. went back to my room, was feeling cheated, in
two days her answer gad gone from yes to a doubtful no.... WTF, i picked up the phone, gave
her a call, asked her out again.........her response:"tmr abc ka bday hai,... abhi mood nahi
hai, sachmain, baad main hum sab (the 2 girls, X and myself) milke jayege".....
enough is enough, i thought.... I said i loved her.... the phone went dead. she even
switched off her phone.
i waited a day, no answer...called her again, wouldnt pick-up. she (along with the other
girls) didnt even turn up for the bday party, the next day...giving reasons that were
obviously fake. quite pissed with her attitude by now, i sent her a message, saying i would
wait for her answer, but for the present i had to get on with my life.
a week or so passed, we hadnt spoken. it was a new sem, and she was no longer in my lab
group. she came up to a guy standing near me, and started saying, "arey main us din jo bhi
keh rahi thi, aise hi keh rahi thi".....she repeated it a couple of times and walked
away.....
i realized it was directed at me, but it still i wondered, why couldnt she come and say it
to me directly, if she indeed meant it..... and it wasnt a direct yes either. i smelt a
rat. i decided i wouldnt immediately react to it..... if she can play games, so can i....
finally, after another 3-4 days, i asked her, was she interested in me?? NO.
It wasnt the answer i expected, but i guess, she realized, she couldnt continue with her
petty games anymore, and came up with the truth. on being pressed more, she said, did i ever
tell you about my past, or anything?? Further, she also said, she didnt want any boyfriend, and could do her own work. I got the point, for her, her boyfriend was her kaam-waala.... no need for more drama.
But i still, did have feelings for her, and couldnt quite move on.... finally, X came up and
told me all about her "NAUTANKI"..... there was a guy, who would call her up everyday, and chat for an hour(oh, thats why she was always on the phone!). she had know him for 3 years, and still hadnt said yes..... besides, there were plenty of seniors, that she moved about with (alone).....(oh, thats the reason, she had said no to a proper date: because it would mean going to the nearest city, which would involve taking the university bus....and being spotted by too many seniors, with the guy she was going out with....very bad for business!!!)
Soon anger, made me see through the all the lies, she had told me. They were too many, and i had beleived most of them without a second thought. The fact was, i knew her well, but was too blind to see BS that was going on........
Now i knew why she couldnt remember my bday, or even spell my first name correctly, or even know my branch of engg.... it wasnt love. Simple lust.
It was my luck, that i didnt waste even more time, by letting her stall even more....
And yes, i did ask X, why he hadnt told me sooner?? And he replied, i was too blind to believe him anyway.... another lie! The actual reason was that, it would leave the group incomplete....
So my friends, never ever take a girl of this sort seriously.....
....i beg for ur kindness upon poor souls like me 
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