I agree with you but that's not what happens with Indians,
parents here are not willing to listen,
they act without thinking, for them the child is always guilty. I have
myself seen through some moments like that. If you muster up courage to tell them the truth,
they won't trust you,
instead they'll do the opposite. I remember telling my
mom and dad about my GF, it was a mess which ended up with a childish fight about why can't i have a GF? I never got the answer but was forced to accept that having a GF is bad.
Incidents like this develops trust issues, and now i personally
would think a 100 times before saying/sharing anything to my parents. Its not just that, they will use that incident against you a hundred times. Here everyone would find hiding the truth using lies comfortable as telling the truth would just mean you getting bashed.
It just doesn't takes you having the personality but also the other side needs the same personality too, which most Indian parents lack.
Establishment of truth doesn't work when the other side is unwilling to accept no matter what.
And
why are discussing this on a FC4 thread?