I think you are a wee bit sexist. that is fine. bear in mind that we have certain expectations of behavior, and there are things called stereotypes. we are all very different people in our private lives, when other people or society is not involved - a great place to explore this is actually games. just think about whether gender needs to or would exist at all if there were no other people around. we need gender for social reasons, property, progeny, security.. and we play these roles the best we can, can't blame any gender for conforming to these expectations. I donno, if a chick actually gave abuses while playing first person shooters, guffawed about the kind of "armour" females wear in games, and showed off attitude about dominating, we would probably collectively shame that behavior as well.