OK, I never saw your thread since I haven't been online for long.
Since you have 256KBPS UL Internet, and since you hate being spoon fed and at the same time you have brains, and since you want binaries for everything, there is no distro as perfect as Debian for you. By debian, I mean debian <<<unstable>>>. Use a variant of it called Sidux. It removes the unstability from debian, but at the same time, you DO get huge updates. Since you have UL internet it shouldn't be a problem. Getting 100mb updates every other day shouldn't be an issue at all IMO.
And yeah, Debian+IceWM on your rig would give INSANE FPS in Urban Terror. I MEAN it. Its so damn light.