mami ke bhai ki beti..

[din]

My suggestion :

The relation does not seems to be a problem. But I am not sure as it all varies. I guess you are below 23 and I am sure you won't agree but your age may not be the right age to make big decisions like marry or not to marry, whom to marry etc.

First - Know whether she loves / likes the same way you love / like her. It will all change if she like you very much but do not want to marry. She may tie a rakhi and will smile

Jokes apart, if you really love her and if you feel the urge (like some have installing Vista at 2.00 am, some make logic chart based on love etc etc) go ahead and ask the girl first. Yes, it may not be easy, in that case know from her close friends or know it some way. Now if you get green signal, change the gear and speed up. Talk to your parents about it, in a calm and explanatory manner. Never tell if its your exam season or if your parents are already in tension. Select a suitable time for that. Also, if you have an elder sis or bro or any elder person (may be cousin ?) that wil lbe a great help. As you know VMWare make it work with even Windows and Linux

If your parents also shows green signal, change gear back to slow There is enough time and yes, 27 is pretty good age to tie teh knot. Wait patiently till that. Use mobile phone, email, messenger. Ever heard of love letters ? No need of that anyway. That was a thing in our age (10 yr back lol) - stone age for you !

Whatever the girl or your parents or her parents decide, do not put too much pressure on them. Try to convince your love, but do not quarrel on that. Whatever be the decision, study well, get a nice job and then you will be in a position to take a good deicision of your own. May be you can come like Amitabh and can ask - Ab Mere pas Gaadi hai, Banglow hai, Mein Software Engineer hoom, America Jaaonga, kya thum mujhe se shaadi karoongi (yaar I forgot all Hindi I learnt in class 9th , so forgive me)

And finally do not forget to invite all of the Digit guys (we will be all uncles n auntys by then ) to attend your marriage.

Good luck. God bless you my friend.

 

[harryneopotter]

wooooooooh .... wel said ...........its the best solution which can be derrived using the surrent variables and assumptions ........ Hope no catalyst ( or Villien, hindi film iisshtyle ) comes in between ..........


Dnt forget to invite haan ................................

 

[AKANKSHA.SINGHAL]

dude...there is no problem if you feel that u love your "cousin"....but i feel you should first talk to her before you jump into the fire and tell your parents abt it...only if she reciprocates ur feelings should u go on wid it.....trsut me u cud land into trouble if she says no while u tell ur parents before hand

 

[harryneopotter]

exactly ...................

 

[int86]

Chess
The relation will be valid and your mami will like it and even she will help you out.

" What you say, think it twice and say me in two weeks" - from film Departed

Take your time before reaching to any decision. The time depends upon maturity of subject(you), it can be as less as one week and even can go upto two years.
So take you time, this was a candid effort from my side.

 

[pra_2006]

its okay to marry her i dont think there is any problem because once my parents were asking me to marry mami ke bhai ki daughter but i denied it cauz i like other girl and u know i am still 22

 

[ayush_chh]

i don't find any thing wrong in this go ahead dude....

 

[Faun]

just get it approved by ur parents...else expect the unexpected

 

[chesss]

So its OK! cool thanks.

The relation will be valid and your mami will like it and even she will help you out.

interesting.. I am having the same feeling that my mami does want us to meet.

She may tie a rakhi and will smile

She smiles allright, but there is nothing sisterly abt it . murderous smiles they are, kutch kaam nahi hota, itni pyaari hai voh..

Marriage an all are far away. Like everybody i have my own set of problems, that I won't bore you with.
As far as telling my parents, I am not telling anybody anything that she isn't ok with. Currently all I am interested in not upsetting her in any way.

Q) Is it ok to just tell I am krazy abt her, but not get into a serious 'relationship'? Not that I don't want to ,but there are problems..
I ofcourse have Nil experience in these matters..

 

[The_Devil_Himself]

well well well looks like all digitians approved this relationship.But guys think this way:Mama's children are his bros\sis and and they are also bros\sis of the girl in question......DOesn't it mean they are actually remotely related brothers and sisters?

And I think he perfectly defined infactuation in his discription. He will stop thinking about her as soon as he sees some other hot chick in neighbourhood\college\(not again).Testosterone is such a wonderful hormone.

 

[Pathik]

So finally wats the status of ur relationship chesss??

 

[chesss]

^I don't get to meet her everyday, hopefully will meet her this week..

And I think he perfectly defined infactuation in his discription.

arre aur confuse mat karo.. pehle hi bahut confusion hai..

 

[iMav]

arre dude zyada kuch hua toh chiranjivee ki beti ki tarah kar lena ya toh fir woh new maruti zen ad dekhi hai na

 

[Lucky_star]

^^Yup
Buy a maruti estilo and elope with her.

 

[The_Devil_Himself]

Or play poker with Pamela anderson.lolzzzzzzz.

 

[harryneopotter]

 

[supernova]

is saari kahani mein poker or pamela kahan se aa gayi..

Chess tu jyada confuse mat ho..
Just meeting her and try to guage her feelings... and most important .. give it TIME!!!

 

[s18000rpm]

arre aur confuse mat karo.. pehle hi bahut confusion hai..

dude, first get yourself out of this CONFUUUUUUSION !!!

sit, relax & THINK about it. dont jump into it.

coz this mamla can become big sh1t, if your desire for her dies.

 

[The_Devil_Himself]

^^Pamela and poker: A very interesting story.In short what happened is that Pamela was playing poker with one of her male friends of many years.....she had some important work to do so she left her chauffeur(Hope the spelling is right) to play with him.......when she came back after 10-15mins she was around 200-250 thousand dollars in loss.......the friend said he could forget about it if she kiss(read sleep....press mein kiss bolna padta hai) him once........and they have been girlfriend-boyfriend since then.Talk about height of sl*tyness

Interesting story indeed.

 

[xbonez]

he he... yeah, this is true, it was in the newspapers a bout 1-2 weeks back...and most of the papers unashamedly used the word 'sleep' instead of 'kiss'