Inter-Religion Marriage possible??
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sujoyp
Grand Master
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
@faun ...thanks for the tips but I had a girlfriend many years ago ....till 4 years ago...and I somewhat have the ideas ....but I am really afraid of taking any stupid step which will tarnish my Consultant image or girls image.
@techfreak ....hmm will do the check
thanks
@rhitwick but I am not ready for those old ladki dekho and simple arrange marrige kind of thing...thats too odd, I dont like that idea itself.
I want the girl of my choice...I have noticed the girl enough and asked enough stupid questions for last 1 year where she lives, what she likes, wat she wears, how she like india, which place she wants to see there, and lots more
Bangladeshi and indian people get married ...thats not new...and to marry a bangladeshi gal I have to marry in kolkata coz inter religion marrige is prohibited in bangladesh..
Changing my faith is next to impossible...but as somebody said i can become neutral and celebrate both
@funskar ....yaah those eklauti bahu dreams are dangerous...but my parents will agree
@faun ...thanks for the tips but I had a girlfriend many years ago ....till 4 years ago...and I somewhat have the ideas ....but I am really afraid of taking any stupid step which will tarnish my Consultant image or girls image.
@techfreak ....hmm will do the check
thanks@rhitwick but I am not ready for those old ladki dekho and simple arrange marrige kind of thing...thats too odd, I dont like that idea itself.
I want the girl of my choice...I have noticed the girl enough and asked enough stupid questions for last 1 year
where she lives, what she likes, wat she wears, how she like india, which place she wants to see there, and lots more Bangladeshi and indian people get married ...thats not new...and to marry a bangladeshi gal I have to marry in kolkata coz inter religion marrige is prohibited in bangladesh..
Changing my faith is next to impossible...but as somebody said i can become neutral and celebrate both
@funskar ....yaah those eklauti bahu dreams are dangerous...but my parents will agree
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shreymittal
Being Human
OP
sujoyp
Grand Master
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
Guys I am again telling you .....I will be getting married within a year....and I really dont belive in ladki dekhne jao and tie knot like goat or cow...I want a girl of my choice...soo I was thinking of taking a chance .
So I was taking the opinion of u guys who are from different places/communities/interests ...if Hindu-Muslim marrige is even possible
The thread is going in the right direction...and I am very happy with the encouragement
Guys I am again telling you .....I will be getting married within a year....and I really dont belive in ladki dekhne jao and tie knot like goat or cow...I want a girl of my choice...soo I was thinking of taking a chance .
So I was taking the opinion of u guys who are from different places/communities/interests ...if Hindu-Muslim marrige is even possible
The thread is going in the right direction...and I am very happy with the encouragement
Zangetsu
I am the master of my Fate.
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
possible...
if Hindu-Muslim marrige is even possible
possible...
shreymittal
Being Human
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
True..
@OP Do what your heart says not what people says. Because if your heart is happy every thing is happy.
"Logon ka kaam hai kehna, kehete hi rhenge". Aap apne dill ki baat suno kyunki yeh happy ni rha toh kuch happy ni rhega. Go ahead bro.
True..
@OP Do what your heart says not what people says. Because if your heart is happy every thing is happy.
"Logon ka kaam hai kehna, kehete hi rhenge". Aap apne dill ki baat suno kyunki yeh happy ni rha toh kuch happy ni rhega. Go ahead bro.
OP
sujoyp
Grand Master
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
@abhidev ....Actually I have some 3-4 months max more here....then project will be over...its already 10 months here....I dont have much time in hand..
Now there is another way to extend time....if we get next project here ....I may stay more...but i would do that only if there is chance...else I am just delaying my marrige ..
@abhidev ....Actually I have some 3-4 months max more here....then project will be over...its already 10 months here....I dont have much time in hand..
Now there is another way to extend time....if we get next project here ....I may stay more...but i would do that only if there is chance...else I am just delaying my marrige ..
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
Has she ever asked you some personal questions ?
You will have to compromise when you reach this point. There wont be a middle ground or your side unless her parents are modern enough and the law of the land changes. I am assuming your parents will be ok with anything you do.Changing my faith is next to impossible...but as somebody said i can become neutral and celebrate both
Has she ever asked you some personal questions ?
abhidev
Human Spambot
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true that...but is your relation with her reached a point where you can discuss your personal life and expectations openly....if no then its time that you pick up the speed
true that...but is your relation with her reached a point where you can discuss your personal life and expectations openly....if no then its time that you pick up the speed
OP
sujoyp
Grand Master
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
@faun ....my parents r modern enough to accept any bahu I bring....even we dont follow any of un-necessary customs ...but I am the Favorite among all my relatives...and suddenly they may see me in negative light...I will just compromise to a point like "you celebrate mine and I will celebrate yours" its good for both
yes she know where i live,people at home,hobbies,distance from dhaka to nagpur my marrige plans such types
@abhidev I must say muslim girls r bit conservative and wont talk too much openly ...i think I will need third person help here..
@faun ....my parents r modern enough to accept any bahu I bring....even we dont follow any of un-necessary customs ...but I am the Favorite among all my relatives...and suddenly they may see me in negative light...I will just compromise to a point like "you celebrate mine and I will celebrate yours" its good for both
yes she know where i live,people at home,hobbies,distance from dhaka to nagpur
my marrige plans such types@abhidev I must say muslim girls r bit conservative and wont talk too much openly ...i think I will need third person help here..
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
You don't need a third person. Don't make that mistake. Hang out with her more often and become friends.
The law of the land is not an issue- both nations follow secular constitutions, so the law on both nations is on your side. India has a "Special marriages Act" so if a religious ceremony is not possible a registered marriage under the law is possible
Also, your relatives are never a problem. They have no right to dictate your life. They may not speak to you anymore, but then you don't meet each relative regularly do you? It isn't like you tell them what they should or shouldn't do. Since your parents are quite open apparently, you will not be ostracized.
And do your neighbours at home interact with your family often? If not, then again, no problems. If they do then the interaction might just decrease.
And if you're from Kolkata then I doubt there will be much trouble. This city is usually more tolerant about inter-religious societies.
If anything you should just ask your Islamic colleagues about how you should communicate with women in general without offending them.
You don't need a third person. Don't make that mistake. Hang out with her more often and become friends.
The law of the land is not an issue- both nations follow secular constitutions, so the law on both nations is on your side. India has a "Special marriages Act" so if a religious ceremony is not possible a registered marriage under the law is possible
Also, your relatives are never a problem. They have no right to dictate your life. They may not speak to you anymore, but then you don't meet each relative regularly do you? It isn't like you tell them what they should or shouldn't do. Since your parents are quite open apparently, you will not be ostracized.
And do your neighbours at home interact with your family often? If not, then again, no problems. If they do then the interaction might just decrease.
And if you're from Kolkata then I doubt there will be much trouble. This city is usually more tolerant about inter-religious societies.
If anything you should just ask your Islamic colleagues about how you should communicate with women in general without offending them.
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Are you telling me that people in Nagpur don't like inter-religious marriages? I thought Nagpur was third in tolerance to only Mumbai and Pune? (Shiv Sena and MNS are retards that don't represent the majority)
Are you telling me that people in Nagpur don't like inter-religious marriages? I thought Nagpur was third in tolerance to only Mumbai and Pune? (Shiv Sena and MNS are retards that don't represent the majority)
gopi_vbboy
Cyborg Agent
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
You should try Live in relationship before deciding to marry.
You should try Live in relationship before deciding to marry.
Kl@w-24
Slideshow Bob
Re: Inter-Religion Merrige possible??
Don't think that's possible under the circumstances he described.
Don't think that's possible under the circumstances he described.