here is the complete list of mods tht i have used. use these mods with patch 1.0.4.0 and not with later patches. most of the mods which are related to the graphical content of the game work best with 1.0.4.0. I must also mention that to make these work smoothly you would need a decent system with a decent gpu with 1 gb ddr5 atleast. 2gb wud be better obviously. The game is CPU hungry which we all know.
1) ICEnhancer 2.1 final- Although the default preset itself was jaw dropping but to make it even more perfect for my monitor and color settings i tweaked it and I am using Less-saturated iceshader.fx . I changed antialiasing quality in iceconfig.ini from 2 to 1. -1 is the highest but even 0 will be enough to kill most of the systems with every ingame setting maxed out. For sharper textures use SMAA.dll and not FXAA.dll. FXAA.dll which is provided with the official download does not work anyway. Its set to SMAA.dll by default anyway so you need not change that.
2)Lord Neophyte's HD textures- here is the link Zippyshare.com - Free File Hosting . It contains all the preloaded and preconfigured .img files and you wont need to add any other major texture addon at all.
3)VIVA new york Mod- A must have really.
4)All the mods by ZBNYNC
5)You can also add Vanni's HD trees Mod but be sure to have alot of VRAM. I tried it but since i have only 1 gb vram my game became laggy and i was in no mood to lower my settings.
6)Real NYC billboard project
7)Realistic Driving Mod
8)Realistic Weapon Sound mod
9)Traffic Fix v4
10) All the other HD addon textures from Lord Neophyte
11)Real Shops Mod version beta, 1.0, 1.1, 1.2, 1.3, 1.4, 1.5, 1.5.1, 1.6
P.S. My all ingame settings are at max. View distance is set to 30 and traffic is at 70 percent. With traffic fix v4 at daytime it becomes real congested which i feel is how it should be but at night the traffic is really low and you can do all the crazy driving stuff you wanna do.
I am trying to find the building that was shown in TV series "friends" all the time. People say its located smewhere near middle park(read: central park). Well i guess its just an excuse to roam around in Manhattan area coz thats the most beautiful one
P.P.S. Ignore the taxi and police car mod included in VIVA NYC Mod as it can result in "taxis everywhere" bug. If you do wanna try it then backup your vehicles.img first. You will ned sparkIV for most of the mods. For ICEnhancer 2.1 xliveless is required.