Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your view?
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shantanu
Technomancer
I think it would be humilating , frustrating and offcourse very difficult for teachers and Parents to handle that... even in india i dont think children need sex education... it should not be introduced here.. it will surely hurt our religious values and social community bondages.... its BAD DECISION...
you seem pretty experienced .. is it GX
( i know what you will say in return) hehe
gx_saurav said:Your body muscles work a lot during sex, the heartbeat increses, brain releases lots of engymes which usually it doesn't in normal times. Hell, if you don't know how to do or how to be careful, you can die doing it.
(guess that was too much
& sure you can learn on your own. but how much? Unless you do practicles or know what will happen while doing practical you won't know anything.
you seem pretty experienced .. is it GX
( i know what you will say in return)
hehe
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Aberforth
The Internationalist
shantanu_webmaster said:
Okay so lets hold the religious values and community as a good excuse for avoiding sex education. Now lets see reality, children above 14 - 15 actually know what is sex but they are curious about it and combined with the sex urge it can take to one of the situations. Let us take a few common situations ignoring AIDs issue -
Experimentation - All you need is two willing partners which is not very difficult these days. Wouldn't you rather have them aware of the consequences and options than let them engage is risky behavious driven by urge and curiosity? There is nothing foreign or 'western' about sex it is all biological and body clocked, may family was a very conservative one and I didn't watch much TV as our family was strict about it. But that didn't stop anything...so back to point.
Porn - Well there is no conclusive evidence of crime directly effected by porn but there is no denial, porn addicts have little respect for women - all women to them are sexual toys. And the way pornography and other sex media project, all women want is banging which can put you in soup or jail if you were to try it practically. A lot of men have the idea you can turn on women by making sexual remarks and its a sign of masculinity...so you have eve teasing and sexual harassment.
Peers - The children use peers and friends as a source of information on sex who are as reliable as joke sites. Their knowledge is half baked, based in media perceptions or porn which you know the consequences. It can also cause negative self image based in media prjection of body and fashion trends.
And besides lack of a reliable source of information can cause a lot of problems which could have been prevented in the first place with good sex-ed. Talking of teachers and parents, if they can't handle a basic thing as sex - I would question their skills. Maybe we need to shed the hipocrisy and get a more mature outlook.
Desi-Tek.com
In the zone
Re: Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your vi
wow u sounds like sex gurugx_saurav said:Your body muscles work a lot during sex, the heartbeat increses, brain releases lots of engymes which usually it doesn't in normal times. Hell, if you don't know how to do or how to be careful, you can die doing it.
(guess that was too much
& sure you can learn on your own. but how much? Unless you do practicles or know what will happen while doing practical you won't know anything.
ssk_the_gr8
Make Way the LORD is Here
Re: Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your vi
yup hes right
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gx_saurav said:Your body muscles work a lot during sex, the heartbeat increses, brain releases lots of engymes which usually it doesn't in normal times. Hell, if you don't know how to do or how to be careful, you can die doing it.
(guess that was too much
& sure you can learn on your own. but how much? Unless you do practicles or know what will happen while doing practical you won't know anything.
yup hes right
heart beat increases to 180 !!!*img246.imageshack.us/img246/8399/thumbsup4kk.gif
praka123
left this forum longback
good for a girls class
Sex education is good.But i feel sex education is necesserily needed for gals.they are the vulnerable.most guys i think will be knowing all these even at 6th-7th standard,even brings condom to classes..just citing an example.it is girls who need to understand things better and clear.Bharath ka Aabadi un pe nirbhar hai?
Sex education is good.But i feel sex education is necesserily needed for gals.they are the vulnerable.most guys i think will be knowing all these even at 6th-7th standard
,even brings condom to classes..just citing an example.it is girls who need to understand things better and clear.Bharath ka Aabadi un pe nirbhar hai?
Aberforth
The Internationalist
Re: good for a girls class
You'd be surprised how much girls know about sex more than guys of the same social and educational standing. Most guys know only half, what concerns their own pleasure which is why girls will never get their due. Sex education isn't all about having children which is a miniscule portion of it anyway.
And yeah we aren't ingnoring molesting and harassing girls and insensitivity towards them, even in reputed universities like Delhi University, forget 7th grade. The ability to bring condoms to class isn't enough, I had a classmate in school who travelled 22 kms to Faridabad away to buy a condom so that no one comes to know.
Not sure about the dying part but one can get bad and painful injury if one isn't careful.
praka123 said:Sex education is good.But i feel sex education is necesserily needed for gals.they are the vulnerable.most guys i think will be knowing all these even at 6th-7th standard
You'd be surprised how much girls know about sex more than guys of the same social and educational standing. Most guys know only half, what concerns their own pleasure which is why girls will never get their due. Sex education isn't all about having children which is a miniscule portion of it anyway.
And yeah we aren't ingnoring molesting and harassing girls and insensitivity towards them, even in reputed universities like Delhi University, forget 7th grade. The ability to bring condoms to class isn't enough, I had a classmate in school who travelled 22 kms to Faridabad away to buy a condom so that no one comes to know.
gx_saurav said:
Not sure about the dying part but one can get bad and painful injury if one isn't careful.
faraaz
Evil Genius
@praka123: You're right...Indian chicks need to be educated about sex. They should be taught that giving oral sex to guys is not a bad thing!!! Furthermore, swallowing CANNOT make you pregnant...so many times I got cut off because Indian girls have funny ideas...
That way Australia was awesome!!
That way Australia was awesome!!
Aberforth
The Internationalist
faraaz said:@praka123: You're right...Indian chicks need to be educated about sex. They should be taught that giving oral sex to guys is not a bad thing!!! Furthermore, swallowing CANNOT make you pregnant...so many times I got cut off because Indian girls have funny ideas...
That way Australia was awesome!!
Maybe you met the wrong kinds of girls. A majority of western girls hate oral sex and definitely would refuse to swallow. If you know some of them and can talk about it frankly - ask them. Even Australian girls for that matter.
A simple question, would you do oral sex in the girls too or would you refuse that part? I think sexual preferences are choices rather than something to be taught.
Maharashtra's put a ban on those CBSE text books as well. This is a step backward, I feel.
I think that the sex education being against culture/tradition is the most moronic reason that one can conjure. Just tell me, in a society where parents don't talk about sex with their kids, where discussing it is supposed to be a taboo, where the kind of vulgarity that is prevalent in mass media - movies, music videos, and what not - where over half of the living population is below the age of 25(I dunno how many of them are in their teens and below), where AIDS is an ever-looming threat... how do you plan on answering a youngster's curiosity on sex-related questions?
The curriculum which was to be introduced dealt with the science of sex and not the art of sex. This is an important distinction which we all should try and understand. It was aimed to be progressive through the grades (eg: from Std. 5 to Std. 10). Now, I don't know how they were going to implement it but to not give them even a chance sends a wrong message in general.
I think that the sex education being against culture/tradition is the most moronic reason that one can conjure. Just tell me, in a society where parents don't talk about sex with their kids, where discussing it is supposed to be a taboo, where the kind of vulgarity that is prevalent in mass media - movies, music videos, and what not - where over half of the living population is below the age of 25(I dunno how many of them are in their teens and below), where AIDS is an ever-looming threat... how do you plan on answering a youngster's curiosity on sex-related questions?
The curriculum which was to be introduced dealt with the science of sex and not the art of sex. This is an important distinction which we all should try and understand. It was aimed to be progressive through the grades (eg: from Std. 5 to Std. 10). Now, I don't know how they were going to implement it but to not give them even a chance sends a wrong message in general.
Aberforth
The Internationalist
Agreed with you Apollo. Denying knowledge of sex, a basic instinct is creating risk of abuse and exploitation, deviant behaviours, experimentation without precautions, teenage pregnancy...etc. The evils of ignorance far outnumber and are mush more serious than the problems of sex education (if any).
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thunderbird.117
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Re: Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your vi
What is india coming to ?. They are more or like dumb down version of chinese counterpart.
What is india coming to ?. They are more or like dumb down version of chinese counterpart.
Aberforth
The Internationalist
Re: Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your vi
Now now? You think Chinese are dumb? Hydrogen bombs, ICBMs, anti-satellite missiles aren't build by dumb people. And yeah, look at the bottom label of your mouse or keyboard, chances are it ha "Made in China" label.
thunderbird.117 said:
Now now? You think Chinese are dumb? Hydrogen bombs, ICBMs, anti-satellite missiles aren't build by dumb people. And yeah, look at the bottom label of your mouse or keyboard, chances are it ha "Made in China" label.
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thunderbird.117
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Iam not talking how the dumb the chinese are. Iam talking about the censorship in china and compare it with india. Before people used to talk how great india is and they compare it with china. Nowdays when i talk with people and tell them to compare it with china and india they say nothing.
For example Bangalore is nothing next to shanghai. Not even one city in india is next to invincible china. China is developing a lot. Heck they even got 1 Gbps net connection at their homes. In india nothing.
India censors everything while india has got nothing.
I wonder when will india government censors google. lool.
Aberforth said:Now now? You think Chinese are dumb? Hydrogen bombs, ICBMs, anti-satellite missiles aren't build by dumb people. And yeah, look at the bottom label of your mouse or keyboard, chances are it ha "Made in China" label.
Iam not talking how the dumb the chinese are. Iam talking about the censorship in china and compare it with india. Before people used to talk how great india is and they compare it with china. Nowdays when i talk with people and tell them to compare it with china and india they say nothing.
For example Bangalore is nothing next to shanghai. Not even one city in india is next to invincible china. China is developing a lot. Heck they even got 1 Gbps net connection at their homes. In india nothing.
India censors everything while india has got nothing.
I wonder when will india government censors google. lool.
kumarmohit
Technomancer
Guyz,I dint go thru the entire thread but imagine if dear uncle arjun tries to bring reservation in sex education!!!
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thunderbird.117
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kumarmohit said:
faraaz
Evil Genius
Re: Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your vi
Aberforth, mate...I was semi-kidding...
But just so you know, western girls do NOT hate oral sex...they'd just rather have regular sex instead.
Also, I definitely don't mind dishing out oral sex if the chick wants it...of course, I'd only decline if I wasn't sure whether she didn't have any STDs I might catch...otherwise, why would I decline?? Do unto others as others do unto you!
And have I mentioned how I was kidding??
Aberforth said:
Aberforth, mate...I was semi-kidding...
But just so you know, western girls do NOT hate oral sex...they'd just rather have regular sex instead.
Also, I definitely don't mind dishing out oral sex if the chick wants it...of course, I'd only decline if I wasn't sure whether she didn't have any STDs I might catch...otherwise, why would I decline?? Do unto others as others do unto you!
And have I mentioned how I was kidding??
Aberforth
The Internationalist
Re: Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your vi
Common sense isn't common anymore we say. The trouble is people compare pre-1984 China with today's India - pretty lame in my opinion considering we got liberalized only in 1991.
Chinese people have a better lifestyle, lower poverty rates than frugal "need based" India. Their might censor democratic ideals, but what does democracy give anyway which is better than the Chinese system? Vote bank politics, apathy of politicians towards problems and dirty and corrupt system. I can talk a lot more but I don't want to bore anyone else.
Don't worry I won't bite. And regarding oral sex I think it is the girl's choice. I had a Punjabi ex who was fine with sexual stuff so I think the idea of Indian girls being inhibited is a bit stereotypical.
thunderbird.117 said:
Common sense isn't common anymore we say. The trouble is people compare pre-1984 China with today's India - pretty lame in my opinion considering we got liberalized only in 1991.
Chinese people have a better lifestyle, lower poverty rates than frugal "need based" India. Their might censor democratic ideals, but what does democracy give anyway which is better than the Chinese system? Vote bank politics, apathy of politicians towards problems and dirty and corrupt system. I can talk a lot more but I don't want to bore anyone else.
faraaz said:
Don't worry I won't bite.
And regarding oral sex I think it is the girl's choice. I had a Punjabi ex who was fine with sexual stuff so I think the idea of Indian girls being inhibited is a bit stereotypical.
Yamaraj
The Lord of Death
Re: Government is about to introduce Sex education in Indian school!, what is your vi
No doubt, both India and China are going to be giants in next few decades. But, while China will be the kind of muscular giant given all the hardwork they're putting their efforts in, India is going to be a 400lbs bubble of fat - attributing to the fact that we're only consuming and dreaming about becoming a superpower without doing anything.
People, we're becoming the kind of giant that gets laughed at.
Correct! Democracy is taken for granted - something divine and natural, and it's blasphemy to speak against it, no less. To the contrary, democracy brings more problems to the table than it solves. A "popular" government will not take strong decisions that undermine "popular issues" for a greater good in the long run, unless it ignores or manages the "popularity". US is one example of such a democracy where unpopular decisions are implanted with the help of mass media. People are, as usual, naive and most lack the will and foresight to put their vote to a good use.Aberforth said:
No doubt, both India and China are going to be giants in next few decades. But, while China will be the kind of muscular giant given all the hardwork they're putting their efforts in, India is going to be a 400lbs bubble of fat - attributing to the fact that we're only consuming and dreaming about becoming a superpower without doing anything.
People, we're becoming the kind of giant that gets laughed at.
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