Love Marriage or Arrange Marriage?

[Aberforth]

If I were to marry I'd marry a girl I like, know well enough adnd we are compatible with each other. My present girlfriend (for 5 years) fits the bill close enough so I am not looking around. I'd hold off marriage for another 7 - 10 years as I have a lot of things to do before settling down.

Arranged marriage might be good for some people depending on circumstances but definitely not me. I think it is in my blood, my parents and grandparents had inter-racial and inter-religious love marriages.

 

[::cyborg::]

uhmmmmmmmm....errrrr......no marriage??

hey man are u going to use your hand all ur life or

 

[cynosure]

^^
iamtheone sounds like an 8 year old. Come on man grow up. Theres no life w/o marriage.

 

[max_demon]

hey man are u going to use your hand all ur life or

Ha ha ha! For me too no marrige
i m not ganna use hand or any other method for that ( u know what)

NO 5!^# NO !^631 NO Marrige

Only Computers!!!

 

[rakeshishere]

You Guys are going "Offtopic"

 

[it_waaznt_me]

How about an arranged love marriage ..?

 

[morpheusv6]

How about an arranged love marriage ..?

What is arranged love marriage???

And, how many 'gals' are really reading this thread(or even on the forum for that matter)? Such topics are started by guys.

Anyhow, I believe that a person is never too old for love and two persons really like each other and have an understanding that can last thier life, then I think they should marry.

But beware of guys and gals who like to just tease their way into the life of others making them belive its 'love'.

And it depends on whether the person is broad minded enough to not let religion, caste come in the way of real love, sometimes orthodox parents oppose the marriage (I have seen a few cases in which the couple ran away because the girls parent's didn't want a SC son in law).

 

[gxsaurav]

^^^ abe, that will require serious game plan. Like bumping into the father of the bride accidently & then approaching for marriage, when u r the bf of the gal already.


Although, not a bad idea

 

[morpheusv6]

Ha ha ha! For me too no marrige
i m not ganna use hand or any other method for that ( u know what)

NO 5!^# NO !^631 NO Marrige

Only Computers!!!

Do your parents know this?

Your opinion is likely to change when you fall in in love.

 

[iamtheone]

hey man are u going to use your hand all ur life or

lolz nah i meant i wud always prefer live in relationships over marriages coz once u r married there is a legal compulsion for u to stay in that relationship (offcourse divorse is a way but then in our indian society there are some cultural limitations bounding us frm taking that step too)and then maybe just maybe u or ur partner breaks the marriage becoz of the frustation or ne other reasons.but in case of live in relationships,i think they r far more succesful than marriage coz in them both the ppl are together by their own wish which may not always be the case in marriages

@cyborg:man do u really think that u cannot lose thatuse of your hand before getting married??
@cynosure:no dude,this is a 16 year old who is infinitely more mature in these matters than u can ever think

 

[azaad_shri75]

lolz
@cynosure:no dude,this is a 16 year old who is infinitely more mature in these matters than u can ever think

more mature in these matters.......

 

[Gigacore]

hey it_wazant_me, arranged love marriage sounds interesting.

 

[chopraji_gsm]

50 - 50

Both are good and bad in my belief

If you all are serious ,I will tell u something

Alot of arranged and love marriaged couples got divorsed.

Divorse rate is same in both .

Mainly need good undersatanding between couples

Must realize wat the actual life.

What is our position................

so and so............

I will tell u more if u r interested..............

Prajith

A married man with fastest divorse

 

[praka123]

arranged marriage may be a good option for:guys/gals who are not that good in flirting,not able to attract or get a relationship chaloo after innumerable tries.
and who are from orthodox religions/families(count me!)
in a nutshell,extrovert got luck with relationships and introverts are not so good in getting partners and "assisted marriage"(umm..) is needed.
personality that matters.some are good at ladki patana.and love may not happen at first sight and there-u need an arranged marriage.

 

[cynosure]

@cynosure:no dude,this is a 16 year old who is infinitely more mature in these matters than u can ever think

Baba re!
16 year guys arent mature. Even I am 18 and I am not mature enough.

 

[abhi_10_20]

love marriage......

 

[rakeshishere]

arranged marriage may be a good option for:guys/gals who are not that good in flirting,not able to attract

Exactly with me

or get a relationship chaloo after innumerable tries.

But Still havnt tried any(Not even a single one)

some are good at ladki patana.and love may not happen at first sight and there-u need an arranged marriage.

I am seriously trying to improve my skills after watching out my friends

 

[Aberforth]

^^
iamtheone sounds like an 8 year old. Come on man grow up. Theres no life w/o marriage.

Not being ready to marry isn't a sign of immaturity, it could be a sign of maturity if a person knows why they don't want to. I can see a life clear and clean without marriage, at least for another 10-20 years (I am 22) as I am not really a stickler for marriage, it is best the way it is now.

 

[Gigacore]

@ cyborg. hand is the safest of all

 

[esumitkumar]

i support love marriage but doesnt found a lovely gal ..so no option left other than arrange marriage..