Real Love!

[faraaz]

I'd say 2-3 weeks rather...DON'T COMMIT THE SAME MISTAKE 12 Day ROMEO did!!

 

[gaurav_indian]

Hey thanks for reply guys. After reading your posts I have created a plan.

I will do following things tomorrow.(Tomorrow is our exam of Basic Electical Circuits.)

1.) She has asked for helped on some Pascal programms. I will give her my Programming notebook. (In which I have written all my programs.).
2.) I will ask her for her phone number. (Never asked it before, but she has mine number.)
3.) I will tell her that I am impressed by her too.
4.) I will ask for some personal things about her, like her fev. food, color etc. (Just so she will know that I have interest in her.)
5.) Then I will ask her that can I visit her house sometimes.
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Thats what I am going to do tomorrow. Suggest me, am I doing things right.?
I think I should not rush. Taking things slowly seems appropriate for me.

Dont follow these points together.Do them week after week one at a time.

 

[blueshift]

DANGER --------this forum is afflicted with virus------"LOVE"

korrect. i agree.

 

[pannaguma]

but didnt QM say that his exams are going on. so after the exams are finished they maybe not able to meet each other.

 

[gaurav_indian]

but didnt QM say that his exams are going on. so after the exams are finished they maybe not able to meet each other.

Thats why he should follow the 2nd point of getting her number first.So that he can keep in touch with her.

 

[pannaguma]

^^ +1

 

[Quiz_Master]

No We in first year. So plenty of time I think.

 

[faraaz]

Yours is a 3 year course right? Nice... Don't be like my bro...he's in 2nd year, so after 1 more year, his babe is gone...

 

[Quiz_Master]

WOW ! guys just coming from college.
What a day it was. First my exam gone fabulous. I knew every single answer.
We (me and she) completed our paper in just two hour. (Total allowed time is 3 hours.)

After that as we were alone outside college we talked a lot about career in MCA and other programming stuff. (I knew a lot about this in class as I am the only guy in class who use internet daily. others use it once a month. Believe me in a small town like this. having Internet is BIG deal.)

After that I gave her that notebook I mentioned above.(She was impressed.)

Again we talked about personal things like fev. food, her study time, her earlier life (she is from Gujrat originally.)

But couldn't asked for number.Maybe later....

Will tell you about more. Later.

 

[faraaz]

DUDE!! That was the perfect chance!!! Ah well...tell you what, don't think about asking her for number too much...when you are talking, just generally ask off as soon as you remember. And don't make it sound creepy, like you are going to stalk her or something...say something disarming like.."so we can keep in touch" or something like that.

But great man!! Very happy for you that things are going well!

 

[i_am_crack]

This forum is leading no where................Think Digit or Think ??????

 

[vish786]

This forum is leading no where................Think Digit or Think ??????

right said... but look at the forum section it says chit chat.

@quiz master

look buddy i have just one advice for you... dont get too much involved emotionally, becoz whole day when see is not around you, u would be thinking about her... & believe me u will land up becoming a constant day dreamer when ur working or listening to lecture in class, mark my words, and see now ur already thinking too much about her, this is how it begins... slowly u will lose ur concentration while studying, and day by day her face will flash every moment even if u try to avoid it... so dont get urselves involved too too deeply... that is all i have for u.

 

[Quiz_Master]

@quiz master

look buddy i have just one advice for you... dont get too much involved emotionally, becoz whole day when see is not around you, u would be thinking about her... & believe me u will land up becoming a constant day dreamer when ur working or listening to lecture in class, mark my words, and see now ur already thinking too much about her, this is how it begins... slowly u will lose ur concentration while studying, and day by day her face will flash every moment even if u try to avoid it... so dont get urselves involved too too deeply... that is all i have for u.

Vish yaar. What can I say, Its allready happening.
Now I cant even sleep in night too. (Haven't sleeped since 3 days. Ask choto_cheeta, I've been talking to him all night.)

But don't worry I am not like other guys. I have a perfect balance between studies and these things, actually my score in class increased by 5-8%.
Just cause I wanted to impress her.
(Thats my way of impressing a girl. Girls here like geeky boys, atleast she likes smart people.)

But I will remeber ur advice as to not fall too much. (But can't promise as I have gone too deep this time. Believe me. )

 

[aditya.shevade]

Well, I was deliberately avoiding this thread, but the size and speed of it's growth made me take a look...... Interesting stuff.....

Its not easy telling anyone that u like her or him.

I disagree on this... If your feelings are true, and if you have been completely honest with yourself, then there is no reason why one should find it difficult.

For, Ashwin, whatever you do, make sure that you are completely sure about what you are doing.... Don't do something that you will have to regreat later. If you turn your back and run away, it's gonna come back and hit you... I have seen it happen....

Again, thiking about her and spending time in that does not help (And I know you will not be able to stop the thoughts in an instant, but try it).

And also be sure to see to the fact that you are completely honest with her, else results might be ugly....

One question.... what was Chota Cheeta was doing awake in the night? Keeping Ashwin a company?.... In that case hats off man... you are a true friend....

 

[i_am_crack]

well me.. i was avaioding this thread... but then it happened to be sneak peak and...look what i got

eBRo

 

[Quiz_Master]

I disagree on this... If your feelings are true, and if you have been completely honest with yourself, then there is no reason why one should find it difficult.

For, Ashwin, whatever you do, make sure that you are completely sure about what you are doing.... Don't do something that you will have to regreat later. If you turn your back and run away, it's gonna come back and hit you... I have seen it happen....

Again, thiking about her and spending time in that does not help (And I know you will not be able to stop the thoughts in an instant, but try it).

And also be sure to see to the fact that you are completely honest with her, else results might be ugly....

One question.... what was Chota Cheeta was doing awake in the night? Keeping Ashwin a company?.... In that case hats off man... you are a true friend....

But If you love something you can express your love easily but when you love someone its really hard. Fear of losing is so great that it fill your mouth with glue. I am completely honest with myself but now things have gone so deep that fear of loseing is growing day by day.


Well as far as I know I am completely sure about what I do. I am not of those kind who run away from things. I am 18 but have seen so many ups and downs that I know that which stuff is more important. Running away is not a solution of problems.... But I will always remeber your words.

Oh. I confess I wasn't complete honest with her. I told her some little lies about me. But I will tell her truth as soon as we meet again.

He was studying that time. I was feeling alone and tired so came online to talk to someone. He was there. Yes he is very good friend. Always gave me the right advice at right time. He is one of those guys who are truly special for me. As my offline friends are not good in solving problems, (I am the one who solves their problems) all I got to share my problems are my online friends. And You always need someone to discuss things otherwise u will soon crack up.

 

[blueshift]

I am completely honest with myself but now things have gone so deep that fear of losing is growing day by day.

You fear of the things which you never had or never did.

Oh. I confess I wasn't complete honest with her. I told her some little lies about me. But I will tell her truth as soon as we meet again.

Lies are good as long as they dont hurt the feelings. Don't lie to 'improve' your image.

But I too seriously think you should stop thinking too much. Listen to good music..thats what I did. I stopped caring about the things that I never possesed.

 

[MysticDews]

i dont nkow how come i ignored this thread till now...

@QM,
i can understand ur feelings very well. Trust me, i have gone through all this. Exactly the same feelings. i 2 was in my first yr wen this happend to me.

And from my experience, in short, wanna share something with you..

>> Always remember the word SLOW..
>> And, an e-mail or a sms can never ever convey ur expression in the right way. Never even attempt to say something when u are not actually face to face with the person.

Hope all ur wishes come true. Hope u get love.

And u can count on me if ever need help. but always remember those two things.

 

[Quiz_Master]

Thanks mystic bro. Its because of guys like I never feel alone and spend 7-8 hours on this forum.
And yes I am slow. I said that in post 59 of this thread.

And I won't send her e-mails and SMSs as she doesn't have a PC or she do not go to Cyber Cafes and She don't even have a Mobile.

I am free this afternoon so I have called some friends who used to study in her class in her old school. (Some background check you know )

 

[blueshift]

background check? Are you analyzing her?? for what?
I hope she doesn't find your this post particularly.