Real Love!

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Quiz_Master

* Teh Flirt King *
eagle_y2j said:
Love isi ka naam hai sacrifice without any greed

Atlast someone who agree that true love is selfless. :D
I was feeling pretty alone on this matter here.

OK I got this story/explanation by mail from my friend (female friend :D)

WHATS IS LOVE AND MARRIGE:?:

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A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat
field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back
to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat,
but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger
one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to
realise that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he
know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher
told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but
when later you realise, you have already miss the person...."*
*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn
field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you
can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to
repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he
has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the
teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for
one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best
one you get.... this is marriage."*
 

Quiz_Master

* Teh Flirt King *
^^ Well No.

I found the right person for me (but have no guts to tell her. :-().

Take my words- Feeling love for someone/something is easy but expressing that love is as heard as licking your elbow.
 

pannaguma

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Quiz_Master said:
but expressing that love is as heard as licking your elbow.
licking ones elbow is impossible.:D

faraaz said:
I'd drug her with chloroform and have her operated (gimme back my eyes B!tch :twisted:)...
maybe this is what is called as Real Hate! :D
 
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Quiz_Master

* Teh Flirt King *
pannaguma said:
licking ones elbow is impossible.:D

So is impossible for me to express my feelings to her.

In this case there are only these possibilities.
1.) Someone will tell her about me. (Fat chance as my friends are pathetic. They don't know how to talk with girls. I am the only confident and cool guy in the gang.)

2.) She will come ahead. (I don't want this to happen. Dunno Why./..)
3.) We will complete our graduation. She will go her way and I will be left crying for her. (Most likely.)
4.) I will just forget her after some years.(My friends says this) (Likely)

5.) I will get confidence from somewher and tell her abt me. And we will live happily ever after. (My dream. I want this to happen.)
 

faraaz

Evil Genius
Quiz_Master said:
^^ Well No.

I found the right person for me (but have no guts to tell her. :-().

Take my words- Feeling love for someone/something is easy but expressing that love is as heard as licking your elbow.

Why so down buddy?!? Trust me...once you get around a bit, asking chicks out is easy. Of course, when you get full into a chick, it gets hard because fear of rejection paralyses you. See, do a bit of groundwork before hand to make things easier for yourself.

FIRST of all, become really good friends with the girl in question AND her best female friend. Then, find out from the female friend or from the girl itself whether she likes another guy and/or is dating another guy. If she's not...then lay it on her!! Going out of your way to do stuff for her, however pissing off it may be, buying her flowers ekcetera ekcetera...but of course, if she doesn't like you...all this stuff will driver her away.

Its always best not to get too invested in a chick if you want to ask her out, because then your risk factor is reduced. In your situation, remember...it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. And if you have to love and things go well...see if you can get a prenup beforehand! :D
 

pannaguma

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@quiz-master - hey i just wanna know if you both know each other well? if yes, then maybe you should start giving her hints abt ur feelings.

this is my opinion, but all digitian plz help our friend if you are experienced in matters of the heart.
 
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gaurav_indian

gaurav_indian

CG Artist
Quiz_Master said:
So is impossible for me to express my feelings to her.

In this case there are only these possibilities.
1.) Someone will tell her about me. (Fat chance as my friends are pathetic. They don't know how to talk with girls. I am the only confident and cool guy in the gang.)

2.) She will come ahead. (I don't want this to happen. Dunno Why./..)
3.) We will complete our graduation. She will go her way and I will be left crying for her. (Most likely.)
4.) I will just forget her after some years.(My friends says this) (Likely)

5.) I will get confidence from somewher and tell her abt me. And we will live happily ever after. (My dream. I want this to happen.)
Sadly 3rd one is looking a possibility.:mad:
 

faraaz

Evil Genius
Dude...seriously, tell her off...whats the worst that could happen? She doesn't talk to you again?? Atleast you will know one way or the other!! :)
 

Quiz_Master

* Teh Flirt King *
pannaguma said:
@quiz-master - hey i just wanna know if you both know each other well? if yes, then maybe you should start giving her hints abt ur feelings.

this is my opinion, but all digitian plz help our friend if you are experienced in matters of the heart.
Yes we both know each other. Here are some thing I should tell u...

1.)She is in my class. (I am a BCA student.) We know each other from 1 year.

2.) I am not shy around other girls. Its just I cant even speak in front of her.
3.) She is impressed from me as I am good in computers (She herself said that.)
4.) There are rumours about both of us in class. (I heard them as I am a boy and boys get these things fast, but she havn't heard them or she just ignored them.)
5.) She is topper of class, and popular too so most other girls hate her.
6.) Even my friends don't like her (Because she is very open mouthed).
7.) Probebly I am the only guy in class with whom she talks so much. And the only one she asked for for help to.

My worst fear - I don't want to loose her.
 

faraaz

Evil Genius
If what you have said is true...you are not going to lose her. Ask her off...if she says no, chill out...cuz chicks are very much into the whole "lets be friends" thing...so not too much risk for you...

Besides, she knows you from long time, so not like she's going to do to you what that other loverboy had coming after he asked a chick out after 12 days...so I say ASK!
 
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gaurav_indian

gaurav_indian

CG Artist
Quiz_Master said:
Yes we both know each other. Here are some thing I should tell u...

1.)She is in my class. (I am a BCA student.) We know each other from 1 year.

2.) I am not shy around other girls. Its just I cant even speak in front of her.
3.) She is impressed from me as I am good in computers (She herself said that.)
4.) There are rumours about both of us in class. (I heard them as I am a boy and boys get these things fast, but she havn't heard them or she just ignored them.)
5.) She is topper of class, and popular too so most other girls hate her.
6.) Even my friends don't like her (Because she is very open mouthed).
7.) Probebly I am the only guy in class with whom she talks so much. And the only one she asked for for help to.

My worst fear - I don't want to loose her.
Looking at your points.I think you have a good chance of getting her.Lage raho ... :D
 

pannaguma

Turn The Page
@ QM - dont worry. see the Fear of Failure will only do bad to you. and try to be as confident as possible when talking to her.
 

faraaz

Evil Genius
pannaguma said:
@ QM - dont worry. see the Fear of Failure will only do bad to you. and try to be as confident as possible when talking to her.

yeah, but don't be cocky like "i know what you're gonna say already" :)
 

Quiz_Master

* Teh Flirt King *
Hey thanks for reply guys. After reading your posts I have created a plan. :D

I will do following things tomorrow.(Tomorrow is our exam of Basic Electical Circuits.)

1.) She has asked for helped on some Pascal programms. I will give her my Programming notebook. (In which I have written all my programs.).
2.) I will ask her for her phone number. (Never asked it before, but she has mine number.)
3.) I will tell her that I am impressed by her too.
4.) I will ask for some personal things about her, like her fev. food, color etc. (Just so she will know that I have interest in her.)
5.) Then I will ask her that can I visit her house sometimes.
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Thats what I am going to do tomorrow. Suggest me, am I doing things right.? :D
I think I should not rush. Taking things slowly seems appropriate for me.
 

pannaguma

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hey listen man i think it will appear a bit to rash. just think, u know her for a yr and didnt say much. suddenly one fine day u tell her points 2, 3, 4, 5.

better do only points 1, 2, 3 tomorrow. point 4 & 5 after 2-3 days.:)

Btw ur strategy is excellent.:D
 
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