.co.in

I am going to launch a website, both the domains are not in use yet i.e. .co.in and .in but the .com is already occupied. So the choice only are the above both. Which one should is choose, which one is more user friendly?

how to get google.com whenever i type google.com to address bar, i always redirected to google.co.in same with yahoo.com,always goes to in.yahoo.com is there any way to access .com not .co.in ? thanks

Whats the difference between .in and .co.in domains? Most websites offer .in registration . So are these same?? Cause cafegadgtes.in and cafegadgets.co.in both seem to be same. Thanks.