you need a custom wire like the one which is used only for charging but has no wire for data like USB condom. unfortunately i have not heard about only data wire so if you really need it desperately, you need to get someone to open it and change the wires to data only pins on both ends.
That will not work. When usb was designed, the power lines were designed so as to signal the device that something has been connected to it. After power signal is received, only then the device will activate serial bus, they are not active every time. So it is not possible to do that.
But they can be removed once the serial connection has been established. So he will need to add a switch to it. But after usb 2.0, this thing has changed. Now device use the power signal as a way to check whether a device is connected or has been removed. (The reason why on removing usb it disappears from file explorer, with usb 1.0 this would not happen)
Power on usb was established later, so it is not possible now.
Also, a phone is able to differentiate between a charger and a pc through a simple method. In chargers, the data + and data - are shorted. So when phone sends a data pulse, it returns back. This does not happen with pc. Pc instead sends it info about usb interface etc. So the phone is able to differentiate.
Instead why not use ADB on the air?